Ways Women Know You’re Not Worth Their Time
When I’m out coaching on a workshop, I notice 3 key mistakes men make when they’re speaking to women that instantly convey to the woman a set of deeper fundamental issues he has.
It’s perfectly understandable since they’re nervous, used to putting women on a pedestal, and have never really been taught seductive conversational basics by anyone.
(They might not even know it’s possible to learn good conversation skills)
If you’re wondering whether or not you make the same mistakes, let me go through the list.
Speaking Too Fast
We’ve covered this a lot at The Natural Lifestyles because it’s so glaringly obvious when men are doing it.
A lot of guys think its got something to do with being nervous, but there is actually a deeper underlying issue as to why it’s unattractive.
You are allowed to be nervous when meeting a new person. It’s perfectly ok, and in all likelihood the girl is nervous too.
But it’s more about how that nervousness affects you. What you do with all of that energy. What you’re really conveying is how worried you are that she’s going to walk away, which you believe is the same as her rejecting you.
Guys talk fast when meeting attractive women because they think they only have a limited amount of time to make a good impression before she will get bored and leave. This lack of abundance is something I cover in my 3 week beginners course, the Dating Accelerator. It’s easy to believe you have limited options with women if you’re not approaching much, but I’ll show you the basic tools you need to get started and to begin seeing results after a few weeks. You can learn all about the course here.
Repeating What She’s Saying
Sometimes repeating what people are saying can be a good conversational technique because it displays that A: you’re listening and B: understanding what the other person is saying is important to you.
But most guys go WAY too far with this by constantly repeating what women are saying over and over again.
After 2 or 3 times women will notice it and feel weirded out by it. Again, it’s ok to be nervous, but what you’re really showing her is that you just can’t handle social pressure.
It’s also a clear indicator that you just don’t know what to say, or to put it another way, that you’re worried about having to come up with something to say (something we also cover in the Dating Accelerator.
Cutting Her Off
The grand finale that is a total deal breaker for most women; interrupting her before she finishes talking.
This is the ultimate display of nervousness, feelings of inadequacy and lack of awareness.
Even if you have good intentions, you’re basically announcing to her that you are completely uninterested in what she has to say. It’s really hard for a woman to speak her mind and feel heard when a man is constantly interrupting what she’s saying.
So how did you do? Even if you can admit to yourself that you do 1 of these 3 things, the Dating Accelerator is everything you need to begin changing the way you interact not only with attractive women, but also the world in general. Click here to learn more about how the course can help you improve your conversation skills.
Being able to handle social pressure whilst giving people the space to feel heard makes a remarkable difference, not only around women who are so used to be silenced by men, but also your colleagues, friends and family members.