I feel strange for having to get coached on how to meet women. Is this normal?

Absolutely. As men we’re put under a lot of pressure to have all of the answers when it comes to women and dating, and if we don’t it’s easy to feel like we’re not really men. For a lot of men it can be a point of shame or feeling of ‘unmanliness’ to have to get help meeting women. It’s important to know that these feelings are normal and that it’s really not your fault. As far as we know, no college or university in the world is running a ‘Dating 101’ class that you missed out on. The expectation that you’re supposed to know how to do all of this without any training is rather absurd.

The best way to think of it is that you’re not coming from behind and catching up with the average Joe, because most men in the world don’t even know that you can approach women on the street. Instead you’re separating yourself from those guys. Imagine you’re a weightlifter who wants to get better. You’ve noticed that your growth has slowed and nothing you do seems to make a difference. So you hire a personal trainer who’s going to push you to new limits, expand your reality and help you to achieve your goals. In the same way, we’re going to take you to the next level in your dating life, elevating you to an elite group of men who have the power to actively date the women they want to instead of waiting for ‘that perfect moment’ which only happens in movies.

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